Sustainable Intimacy
Rekindle the Flame for the Long Game
May 21st, 2023 • 10:00am – 6:00pm • Oakland, CA
Do you and your partner crave that old feeling of excitement and passion that has faded into comfort and predictability? Losing the sexual spark is a challenge so many couples in long-term relationships face. It’s not uncommon to have different libidos, which can make sex feel like a chore and lead to resentment.
When intimacy gets stagnant it can be hard to find ways to reconnect that feel genuine instead of forced. Learning to reduce pressure, alleviate insecurities and shame, resolve conflict, and navigate the stress of jobs and parenting is vital for creating sustainable intimacy.
Dr. Aly and her husband Sebastian will help you reignite the spark with curiosity and creativity and provide practical steps you can take to make these changes last. Rediscover how to relate to your partner as a playmate, not just a teammate, so you can find your way back to a fulfilling and erotic dynamic.
In this experiential daylong workshop, you will:
Uncover harmful patterns that can arise over time and discover new ways to cultivate your sexual connection
Learn how to create a safe space to reconnect in new ways and build a foundation of intimacy beyond sex
Explore a menu of ways to connect during intimacy dates that will allow you to connect authentically and without pressure
Discover how to be able to increase your capacity for both receiving and giving pleasure
Acquire an array of games, exercises, and practices that will allow you to find easeful ways back to your desire and passion.
You will leave with a comprehensive roadmap of ways to explore your connection with genuine excitement, turned on desire, and nourishing pleasure. Rather than giving you a momentary boost of passion, we will provide you all the tools you need to create a sustainable and personalized path to lasting intimacy for the long run.
Early Bird Ticket
$325 for 2 people
available thru March 2022
Tickets for 2
$375 for 2 people
available after March 2022
Experiencing financial difficulties? Apply for a sliding scale ticket or send an email to create a payment plan.
your FacilitatorS
Dr. Aly and Sebastian
Dr. Alison Ash is teaming up with her husband and intimacy coach, Sebastian Clarke, for this brand new offering. In their coaching practice, Dr. Aly and Seb frequently work with couples in long term relationships who are struggling to keep the spark alive.
Through offering experiential practices, they support these couples to find new ways of being in connection with each other. It’s deeply rewarding for them to help couples unpack old patterns and unconscious habits and revitalize their intimacy to reignite feelings of excitement, desire, and passion.